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Friday, August 29, 2008

Wow! A kid hit me at school yesterday!

I cannot help but share an experience I had yesterday! I substituted in Christian's class yesterday, which was a neat! He is such a mature boy! Anyway, I went out to recess to help organize some soccer teams eventhough I didn't really have yard duty. I organized the teams and the kids started playing. Before I could walk back to the classroom, two sweet little girls stopped me and said that a boy had been really rude to them and even hit one of them in the arm. Well, I knew these girls (they aren't tattle tales) and figured I better follow-up and talk to the boy. They pointed him out and I called him over to talk to him. I said, "What's your name?" (I didn't know this kid) and he rudely said, "What's your name?" I told him my name and then he mocked me and copied everything I said. My intention was to get this kid to say sorry and feel responsible for hurting these girls. Well, he continued to mock me and so I told him that I would be walking him to the office to see the principal. Well, at that point, after mocking me, he ran! Then began my out of body experience! I was stubborn and was not going to let him get away with this... so I chased him! When I caught up with him (adrenaline is amazing, I was even wearing sandals), I grabbed his left arm and looked down at him to talk to him and I saw his right arm winding up with a fist at the end of it. He swung and hit me in the head, luckily I moved my head to the side a bit or he would have gotten me right in the nose. It all happened very fast but I can see it in slow motion now! I went into shock! I didn't really have bad pain until later that afternoon so I went back to the classroom and finished out my day of teaching. I couldn't really think very well, so I had some of my responsible kids do most of the teaching. When he got home from work, Aaron drove me up to see my brother-in-law, Chiropractor. He said I may have suffered a minor concussion and had knocked out two vertebra in my neck. An experience that I'll never forget. I hope that this boy somehow learns that there is a better way. I will be praying for him!

Families are Forever!

Families are Forever!
What a great blessing

I sure do love my family!

I sure do love my family!

Our 3 little ones!

Our 3 little ones!
We have been so blessed!!!

My parenting plan!!

I have been thinking a lot lately of what I need to teach my kids to help them become independant physically, spiritually and mentally so when they turn 18 they will be able to survive on their own. The last 9 years has flown by so quickly I can't believe it. Nine more years and my first child will be old enough to be on his own. That is a real wake up call for a mother who hasn't prepared her children for those important days. I realize that I have gone on way to long without a list of what needs to be learned and done by what age so that my kids will not be horrified when they get out into the world alone. So, I've come up with a list of most everything I can think of that would be important for my kids to know and learn and what ages they should be capable. Of course, every child is different and is capable of different things at different ages. Some learn things faster and are more motivated. Others would like to just live in the home cave for the rest of their lives and have no motivation to do any of it. So, I am including my fairly flexible plan. But if you let too many years slip by, you may need to up the work to fit everything in. I got most of my ideas from a very experienced LDS author (Merilee Boyack) who has raised several children successfully! So, hopefully you find this as helpful as I do!